Unfortunately, divorce can be one of the most bitter and stressful experiences in life. It can be hard to be strong when the love ends. Whatever the reason for the split, the end of a relationship literally turns your whole world upside down. A breakup usually results in all sorts of painful emotions.
It is very important to move on with a renewed optimism after divorce and we want to offer this story as an inspiration.
Meet Rhonda Haley! The woman had been married for 22 years with three children, and she believed that nothing wrong could happen to her perfect marriage.
Rhonda found herself going to a divorce court to officially end her relationship with the husband she had been with for more two decades.
After the divorce, Rhonda felt depressed, she literally lost her will to live. The woman spent her days lying in bed.
Her usual life had been centered around being a good wife and a great mother. After the breakup, she did not know what to do with herself, as her kids were already adults.
After several weeks, Rhonda decided that it was enough for her. She said to herself:
“This is the first day of the rest of my life. I need to get up, get out, and get on with living.”
She got up and put on her favorite jeans and a yellow shirt. Finally, she fixed her hair and put on make-up. Her first destination was a shopping mall where the woman wanted to spend some time.
As it turned out, it was one of the most important decisions.
When she entered the shopping mall she met a stranger who gave her a beautiful comment. The woman just smiled and thanked the man.
Rhonda was shopping for sunglasses at another store when the same man approached her and said her he would have asked her out if she was not wearing a ring. Unfortunately, the wedding ring was still on Rhonda.
However, the woman decided to do something unexpected. She just ripped the price tag off and wrote her mobile number on it.
Then she came to the man, gave him the price tag and told him to call her. When the man asked if she wasn't married, she replied: 'Not for long', and walked away with a smile on her face.
The man, called John, got in touch the next day. Believe you or not, six years later the couple is happily married.
Divorce can be one of the most difficult periods of your life. However, it is important to remind yourself that you can do anything and you definitely will go through the tough experience.
First of all, give yourself a break. Just take a deep breath and try to relax. Do something pleasant for you. Try to think positively.
Do not go through this experience alone. Share your problems and feelings with your family. It will help you to move on faster.
Having a divorce is never the end of your love life. Keep your heart open as you can never tell who you’ll meet. And this inspiring story is real proof.
True love can be found anywhere. Don't give up, it is possible to be happy again no matter you are single or with a partner! Love that overcame all fears and doubts.