Barack Obama Has These 3 Questions To Ask To See If Your Partner Is ‘The One’

Date July 4, 2018

It’s always useful to hear a good marriage advice from a person who’s been there for more than 25 years. Barack Obama has 3 main questions to ask yourself to find out if your partner is the one. What are these questions? Let’s find out.


Three main questions from Barack Obama

Barack and Michelle Obama live in a happy marriage for 26 years. “What’s their secret?” you may ask. Well, apparently, Barack has his own tips on how to choose ‘the only one’.


In his book, Yes We (Still) Can, Barack’s former advisor, Dan Pfeiffer, recalls his conversation with the ex-president during which they discussed very personal things. In particular, Dan told Barack he plans to move in with his girlfriend and received a piece of good advice.

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As the book says, Barack told Pfeiffer to ask himself 3 questions to see if he has found the one.

Is she someone you find interesting?

Obama suggests asking yourself this particular question because you will spend more time with your future partner than anyone else.

There is nothing more important than always wanting to hear what she has to say about things.


Does she make you laugh?

Good sense of humor is very important in a healthy relationship according to Barack Obama. If two people who plan to spend the rest of their lives together are on the same wave, it’s definitely a good sign.

Will she be a good parent?

Pfeiffer recalls Obama telling him:

I don't know if you want kids, but if you do, do you think she will be a good mom?

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Barack, who has two daughters with his lovely wife Michelle, knows the value of a big family. The former president often credits his wife for his success not only in politics but in life.


A healthy relationship in a family is not something we should take for granted. This is a hard work that requires time and efforts, but the result is definitely worse it.


Dan followed Barack’s tips and he is now happily married.


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