Domestic Violence Is A Horrible Issue, But There Are Different Solutions And Ways To Prevent It
November 8, 2018 17:03 By Fabiosa
Our society has a lot of extremely dangerous issues: gun violence, bullying, child abuse, etc. Media highlights them really frequently, whereas the issue of domestic violence hides behind the curtains for the most part. We often hear stories about domestic abuse in celebrities, but it happens far more in ordinary people. According to recent statistics, every fourth woman and every seventh man will suffer from severe domestic violence. We want to raise awareness about this huge issue by sharing the possible solutions of domestic violence, as well as some prevention tips.
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Solutions of domestic violence
First and foremost, it is important to educate yourself about the issue: learn the types, signs of the victims and perpetrators, risk factors, etc. Then you need to share the knowledge with others. We can’t stop the problem if we don’t see it, can we? There are, however, more things you could do to solve domestic violence:
- Intervene if you suspect abuse and violence. Be careful, though. It can be extremely dangerous, especially if the abuser has a weapon.
- Support those who are being abused. Make them sure you will back-up and do everything to protect them.
- Call 9-1-1, especially if you believe the victim is in imminent danger. Provide the services with critical information, including names, location, and phone numbers. You can remain anonymous if you want. Also, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 and report the incident.
- Check in regularly. Call, text, or visit the victim from time to time to see if they are doing fine. If you live nearby, keep your eyes and ears open.
- And probably the most important thing you can do is to document everything you witness when you can. Take notes of injuries and dates. This can help the victim in the possible investigation.
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Domestic violence prevention tips
Unfortunately, if you are wondering how to stop domestic violence before it starts, there aren’t many tools at your disposal. The very first thing you need to do is to learn how to spot an abuser. You might start a new relationship and feel like your partner is charming, kind, and tender, but a few months later find yourself completely broken, miserable, or beaten by them.
Luckily, there are some specific portents you need to know about. You don’t have to be a professional psychologist to identify a potential abuser. We have written about these signs in another article, so if you want to protect yourself just click HERE or on the “Read Also” below this photo.
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Government solutions to domestic violence
Due to the fact that the domestic violence issue is tightly connected to other forms of violence, it makes it so much more dangerous for our society. Moreover, according to recent studies, around 40% of all homicide victims are murdered by their intimate partners. Our government acknowledges this and also believes that domestic violence can be prevented. Therefore, some key governmental strategies have been developed as solutions of domestic violence:
- Teaching healthy relationships – special relationship programs for youth and couples.
- Family-based programs to promote the healthier family environment.
- Breaking the vicious circle of partner violence in children with the help of parenting skill programs and treatment for at-risk children.
- Improving school safety and workplace climate to create a protective environment.
- More economic support by strengthening family financial security.
- Improving support of survivors of domestic violence by creating victim-centered services, providing treatment, and offering housing programs.
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As you can see, anyone can do something about domestic violence. And it is important to be active to cleanse our society from the horrors of violence and abuse. Not only it impacts economics and ruins people’s lives, it directly affects our youth. Children who are exposed to domestic violence are more often abused and neglected. Such children are more likely to then perpetrate domestic violence or experience it throughout their life. Let’s do something about it. The solutions of domestic violence exist. It is up to us to use them or stay aside.