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Husband Threatens To Divorce Wife If She Doesn't Undergo Breast Augmentation: "What Should I Do?"

Date August 15, 2019 17:34

Being in a couple usually means there are certain decisions you make while keeping your partner's views and feelings in mind. However, there are some choices that should be personal.

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Plastic surgery

One example of a personal choice is whether or not to undergo plastic surgery to change your appearance. According to PlasticSurgeryOrg, a cosmetic procedure is a personal choice. It's important that you choose to do it for yourself, rather than to fit someone else's need.

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Because it's an elective procedure, cosmetic surgery usually isn't covered by health insurance so you have to keep this in mind as well.

Husband threatens divorce

One internet user posted about her marital problem on Quora.

The wife explained that her husband has threatened to get a divorce if she doesn't undergo a breast augmentation.

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The kicker is that, in addition to this threat, neither the man nor his wife can afford to get the surgery. The woman wanted to know;

What should I do?

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Several people reacted to her question and offered advice. One of them, Anna Ewers, told the woman not to go ahead with the surgery because the husband isn't worth it.

Don’t do it. If he values the appearance of your breasts more than he values you and his marriage, he isn’t somebody you need in your life.

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Carlet Langford agreed, saying the poster needs to rethink her marriage to such a person.

If you don’t want the surgery and he has determined this is the thing that will make him end the marriage, then I’d start looking for a place to live and a divorce lawyer. You should never be browbeaten or threatened into getting surgery you don’t want or need because someone else wants you to.

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The meaning of love

Writer Marisa Donnelly put it best in her article for ThoughtCatalog when she stated that real love isn't about asking someone to change or being asked to change for them.

Love is not asking people to change. It’s not about finding someone who has changed, will change, or is changed enough to be perfect for you. And the reverse is true.

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If you believe Marisa's view, it's safe to say that the husband in this scenario isn't really in love with his partner. What advice do you have for her?