'Blacklist' James Spader Has A Son From His Girlfriend Of 18 Years And We Wonder Why He Doesn't Marry Her

February 3, 2020

The Blacklist star, James Spader, was quite young when he married his first wife. He met his ex-spouse, Victoria Kheel, in New York City, in a yoga studio — the couple was dating over a decade before settling down in 1987. They parted ways in 2004, having produced two sons, Sebastian and Elijah.

According to some reports, it was James Spader who filed for divorce from Victoria; however, the cause for the separation is still unknown. The Hollywood actor soon began dating actress and model Leslie Stefanson, whereas Mrs. Spader has been single since then.

James Spader and Leslie Stefanson

The three-time Emmy winner has been with his girlfriend, Leslie Stefanson, for over a decade. The two met each other in 2002, and a year later, they starred together in the movie, Alien Hunter.

In 2008, James Spader and Leslie Stefanson welcomed their first-ever baby named Nathaneal, who is now 12 years old.

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Despite their 11-year age gap, the couple has enjoyed their blissful relationship, but surely, we can’t help but wonder why they haven’t tied the knot yet after 18 years of dating. Maybe, he is okay with such a lifestyle, or maybe, he is quite afraid of failed marriage again.

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In an interview with Playboy in 2014, The Practice star was asked about the key behind his successful romance with the now-sculptor. He answered:

“Be of love a little more careful than of everything,” wrote e.e. cummings. Pay attention. Take great care, especially in things that are taken for granted.

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James and Leslie currently divide their family time between New York and Los Angeles.

Facts about James Spader

His net worth is estimated at $20 million, with a $300,000 salary per episode.
He has severe obsessive-compulsive issues.
He has been termed ‘intense’ and ‘difficult’ to work with.
He is known for his idiosyncrasies.
Just like Raymond Reddington, he adores hats and glasses.

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Indeed, 59-year-old James Spader is one of the most eccentric actors in Hollywood. We surely don’t know him behind the scenes, but we can’t deny his talent and fascinating acting, especially in The Blacklist. On another note, what’s your opinion about his personal life? Why doesn’t he marry his partner of 18 years?