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Freaked Out Husband Dumps His Wife Of 19 Years As He Discovers She Was Born A Man: "Now I know Why She Wasn't Good At Ironing"

Date October 9, 2019 16:36

They say that you can be close to someone and never truly know who they are. This was the case for a 64-year-old Belgian man who claims his Indonesian wife, 'Monica' of 19 years used to be a man.

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Meet Jan, the devasted husband!

When a man named Jan from Belgium married his Indonesian wife Monica back in 1993, he thought he knew everything he needed to know about her. She had worked as a nanny for him prior to their marriage and had always come across as honest, open, and warm. His kids liked her, they viewed her more as a big sister, and for a while things were good.

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"I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway. I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits," he explained.

Jan revealed that there were no clues even during moments of intimacy betraying Monica's biological gender and that his wife had even pretended to menstruate, using sanitary napkins to "to conceal the truth."

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The truth always comes out

Things began to change after almost 2 decades together Monica got a new job and started dressing more provocatively, wearing skin-baring tops, short skirts, and tight, flashy clothes. Jan even caught her chatting with different men on the internet and heard rumors that his wife of 20 years was actually born a man but he could not believe them to be true.

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It wasn't until recently, after two years of conflict over Monica's late-night partying, that Jan learned the shocking truth from one of his wife's relatives.

"One evening I confronted her and she finally confessed she had been born a boy and had a sex change operation,"

Jan said, according to the Daily Mail.

"My world collapsed in a few seconds. I was horrified. I feel like have been violated for almost 20 years."

How crazy would it be to find out your significant other wasn't who you thought they were?

Jan knew that there was no way that he could stay with Monica and he filed for an annulment.

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Moreover, the is reportedly undergoing psychiatric treatment due to his wife’s shocking revelation.

Despite the growing acceptance of transgender people all over the world, Monica had been cheating on her husband for almost 20 years and it's not so difficult to understand his outrage!

Love and family are about being loyal and honest, right?

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