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Woman With 4 Boyfriends Gets Pregnant, And Now She Wants All Of Them To Raise The Baby Together

Date December 9, 2019 12:47

Polyamory isn't exactly a new concept. According to OprahMag, this is simply a version of non-monogamy that involves someone being in an intimate relationship with more than one person.

The key here is that the non-monogamy should be consensual. A primary couple may jointly decide to explore being with other partners or a polyamorous group choose to have an intimate relationship.

There's a lot to discuss and consider before entering a polyamorous relationship, especially in cases where a person already has a primary partner (like a spouse) or intends to.

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Like monogamy, it's important to communicate with each other. But because monogamy has many set models and rules, they kind of know what to expect. With polyamory, many people simply make it up as they go along, making constant communication even more of a necessity.

Polyamorous woman gets pregnant

A pregnant woman in a polyamory relationship with four boyfriends has expressed her excitement to have all four of them raise the baby.

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Tory Ojeda started by dating Marc when she was in high school, then, later on, she cultivated relationships with Travis, Ethan, and Christopher.

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She told the DailyStar that while her friends had always been on board, her family was a bit skeptical about the alternate lifestyle.

My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

Just because she had four boyfriends didn't mean she didn't know who the father of her child was. Tory told the publication that Christopher was actually the biological dad based on the calculations with timing and conception date.

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Despite knowing that, all five of them did intend to bring up the child.

We're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad. We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.

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Tory revealed that the way things worked for her, her boyfriends were free to cultivate intimacy with other people if they chose to.

One of the common polyamorous relationship problems is jealousy. And according to Ethan, they found "healthy ways" to deal with it which was basically just about communicating with each other.

Polyamorous couple? Here are some tips

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According to Vocal-media, a few things required to make non-monogamy work in this type of situation include;

  • Being educated about what polyamory entails;
  • Discuss boundaries and what to do if someone breaks them;
  • Use protection and make intimacy health a priority;
  • Be communicative and open about your needs.

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Like any other type of relationship, polyamory takes a lot of planning, consideration and mutual respect. The rules should be clear for all involved and at every turn, everyone should talk to each other to prevent resentment and other problems.

Good luck to Tory and her men on this exciting adventure.

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