PSYCHOLOGY

Divorcees, Activists, And Businessmen: Blogger Made A List Of Men Not To Marry

Date July 16, 2019 15:20

Generally, when a woman decides whether to marry a certain man or not, she is guided by her feelings and her partner’s attitude. She looks at his behavior toward other women. Does he respect his mother? Does he speak about his ex, and, if so, then in what way? Does he accept his sweetheart completely and absolutely, without wanting to change her? Is he trying to make her life as happy and easy as possible?

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Of course, it can take a long time to find the right man if you seek flaws in every suitor. A blogger named Alexander decided to make life easier for everyone by making a list of 20 men you shouldn’t marry. Would like to look at it from a man’s perspective?

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The list consists of 20 types of men. Some of them are very logical, and, perhaps, every woman knows why she shouldn’t marry a mama's boy, alcoholic, gigolo, pushover, lazybones, macho, criminal, dreamer, clubber, or adrenalin junkie. But this list also included some seemingly harmless men. Do they even belong on this list?

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Fan/activist

Alexander believes that over time, any woman will become just an attachment to such a man. His hobby will always remain a priority – fishing, sports, friends, or the gym.

Men of brutal professions

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No doubt, rescue work, firefighting, and policing are noble professions. However, Alexander claims that these men are never at home, as service comes first. Also, their health and even life are permanently at risk.

Nearly a millionaire

Alexander believes that such men always promise women that they will be soon be on the cover of Forbes. One more deal, one more training. All you need to do is trust them and wait just a little bit. And this goes on forever.

Younger or much older men

A younger man, Alexander says, will sooner or later start looking for a younger woman. According to him, older men usually come with bad habits and a bunch of diseases. They also are not very decent (if they are prepared to date women young enough to be their daughters).

Divorcee

According to Alexander, a divorced man:

  • either doesn’t know how to choose women;

  • or doesn’t know how to “adjust” his wife and gives her too much freedom.

Businessman

Alexander agrees that a successful man is always an enviable party. But big money means big problems. The head of the family will never be at home, and, most likely, his business will be associated with high risks, including to his life.

No doubt, Alexander did a great job in making a list of men undesirable for marriage. But we would like to read his list of men suitable for marriage because now it seems that there are none. What do you think?