PSYCHOLOGY

After Transitioning To Female, Dad-Of-2 Decided To Become A Man Again. But His Wife Had Already Met New Love

Date July 17, 2019 14:56

A sex change is a major decision and it should be taken very seriously and responsibly. But, as it turns out, some people decide on this overhastily.

In 2009, Eirian and James Cohen from the UK got secretly married in Jamaica. Soon, the spouses had two daughters who were the apple of their dad's eye.

It might seem there was only harmony and love in their family. But 8 years into marriage, James confessed to his wife that he wanted to become a woman. It turned out that the man had been hiding his true self since childhood.

After Transitioning To Female, Dad-Of-2 Decided To Become A Man Again. But His Wife Had Already Met New LoveThis Morning / YouTube

Eirian was shocked by her husband's statement, but in the end, she supported him. Soon, Cohen started taking hormones and wearing a wig, as well as changed his men's clothes to women's. Gradually, Eirian came to accept the fact that the father of her children is transgender.

However, the spouses could no longer be husband and wife, so they got divorced, separating on good terms. Over time, Eirian found another man, while James started feeling uncomfortable in his "new skin."

After Transitioning To Female, Dad-Of-2 Decided To Become A Man Again. But His Wife Had Already Met New LoveThis Morning / YouTube

Just 8 months later, he stopped wearing dresses and heels, threw away his wig and grew out his beard again.

Eirian even wrote a book about what happened to her husband being gender fluid and called it Passion to Freedom.

Now, the ex-spouses are friends. James simply hasn't found himself in this world yet.

What do you think about this? Who suffered more in this situation? Share your opinion in the comments!