PSYCHOLOGY

What Shouldn't Your Partner Ask For? You Can Say "No" To This!

Date June 19, 2019 14:09

When people are in love, they are happy and want to make the world feel the same. They want everyone around them to experience this uplifting and euphoric state as it is a marvelous feeling. And particularly, they want to make their beloved feel good, that's why they never deny them anything.

Which requests you can say "no" to, even if they come from your beloved

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But there are moments that serve as a wake-up call and should be refused, even if it comes from your beloved. So what requests or behavior can these be?

1. Drastically changing your beliefs and your inner world

2. Giving up talking to friends and family or spending less time with them

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3. Refusing from career growth or even changing your workplace to avoid having a more senior position than him

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4. Going through your phone to check your text messages, calls, emails and social networks

5. Not putting aside time for your hobbies and passions because he doesn't like them

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6. Being unwilling to listen to your problems and only talking about his own

7. Being unable (or unwilling) to be happy for your achievements

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8. Being unable to defend you from his family's and friends' attacks when they're not happy with your behavior

9. Asking you to be an intermediary in his relationship with his friends or family members

10. Frequently comparing you with other people not in your favor

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If you value your relationship and want to keep it healthy, don't allow yourself to act the same way, but also, don't let your partner rob you of your personal space and privacy. It's important that partners are equal in the relationship, without violating each other's rights and freedom.

Do you agree with this?


The material in this article is for informational purposes only and does not replace the advice of a certified specialist.