Woman Wants To Start A Family With A Man Who Has Been Married A Few Times Before. Is He Trustworthy?
April 1, 2019 18:12 By Fabiosa
It is common for some to be tight-lipped about having been married twice or thrice, as people usually have a negative attitude towards men who run from one woman to the next and then maybe to one more. But these situations are quite common in real life.
On one of the forums, Anna posted her story. She's 37 years old and she met a nice man at a party. She likes his generosity, attention, courtesy. There's only one drawback – he has already been married three times. He has children from previous marriages, but he doesn't keep in touch with them and provides them with minimal financial support, even though he's well-off.
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These facts concern Anna as she wants to start a family, but she's never been married before. That's why she's wondering what to do: proceed with the relationship or put it to an end?
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The readers' opinions were divided:
If he didn't get along with three (!!!) wives, it's pointless!
I am a third wife, so what? All people are different. My husband can't live with dumb women. And, if you want real advice, it's better to try and fail than to never know and always wonder.
Personally I am married for the seventh time (I'm 46 years old now!) And with each of my ex-wives I was happy and miserable in some ways. They were all completely different.
Psychologists recommend considering each of the cases separately because both men and women are different. Perhaps an early marriage failed because the partners hadn't had time to realize the values of family life and figure out how they should act before tying the knot.
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Or maybe, a short marriage is a timely noticed mistake. Then again, there can be infidelity on the part of exes. Or the partners just didn't manage to speak openly about their feelings, which is why they failed to understand each other.
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What do you advise Anna: get involved with a thrice-married man or get out while the going is good? Please, share your opinion. We should help the girl!
The material in this article is for informational purposes only and does not replace the advice of a certified specialist.