Divorce After 50: A New Life Or Lonely Old Age?

Date March 27, 2019

Entering into an official marriage, all couples hope to live happily ever after.

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But, unfortunately, this is not always the case.

Divorce after 50: a new life or lonely old age?

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The number of later-in-life divorces is growing worldwide. In the United States, or instance, half a century ago, only 2.8% of Americans over 50 were divorced. In 2011, 15.4% were divorced and 2.1% lived separately.

There is even a term in the US for divorces after 50 – Americans call them “gray divorces."

Why do so many older people divorce instead of enjoying graceful age together?

Reasons for “gray divorce”

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There are several reasons why people over 50 decide to separate. Here are the most common ones:

  1. Financial independence. Women no longer depend on their husbands in this respect.
  2. The attitude towards divorce has changed in society. It is no longer considered shameful.
  3. Incompatibility in bed. The intimacy aspect of marriage has grown in importance in the last few decades.
  4. Loss of common interests. People change with age, and this is a fact!
  5. Increased life expectancy. Who wants to live in an unhappy marriage for several more decades?

Naturally, there must be good reasons to take this radical step. Experts warn that divorce has serious consequences for the elderly. Like widowhood, it can be detrimental to health and aggravate economic problems.

Let’s take a look at all the pros and cons

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There is a good and bad side to every situation. Here are the advantages and disadvantages of a divorce after 50:


  • you will meet new people;
  • you will know yourself better;
  • you can diversify your intimate life;
  • you won’t have to answer to anyone;
  • you will be able to communicate with anyone, anywhere.


  • divorce is a mini-death;
  • your mutual friends will feel uneasy;
  • your official status will change;
  • it is always difficult to change established habits (particularly place of residence);
  • you may feel very lonely at times.

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In general, before you decide in favor of a "gray divorce," we advise you to carefully weigh all the pluses and minuses.

How to cope with the consequences

If you have decided to divorce after 50, here are some tips:

  1. Be prepared for the fact that a divorce will cause strong emotional turmoil;
  2. Don’t try to cope with it on your own;
  3. Don’t let your spirits sink and don’t blow the situation out of proportion;
  4. Don’t forget about your children and grandchildren;
  5. Consider divorce as an opportunity for self-improvement;
  6. Accept the fact that you can’t control everything in life;
  7. Maintain friendly relationships with your ex-spouse;
  8. And most importantly, remember that healing takes time!

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It is up to you whether to divorce after 50 or not. But if it happens to you, leave the past in the past and become the person you’ve always wanted to be.

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The material in this article is for informational purposes only and does not replace the advice of a certified specialist.