To Wed Or Not To Wed? 5 Absurd Reasons For Getting Married
November 26, 2018 11:29 By Fabiosa
When a girl gets married, usually nobody asks her why. However, apart from big love, there are other motives that make couples put their relationship on black-and-white. Many of them can be traced to the so-called "wedding-mania."
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Before going to the civil registry office, it may be a good idea to ask yourself the main question: Why do you want to get married? According to the statistics, every second marriage ends in divorce; therefore, this decision needs to be taken responsibly.
5 most absurd reasons for marriage
1. You have been together for a long time
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This a reason for the marriage of many couples whose love is long gone. In this case, this formality will only bring you closer to an end. Don't think that marriage is a solution to a bad relationship; it's short-sighted.
2. Your mother wants grandchildren
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"When will I finally get to hold my grandbabies?" — a lot of single girls hear every day. Along with this, it's almost impossible to persuade your mom that you don't need to be married to have kids. Besides, before taking such an important step, you need to make sure your significant other is good father material.
3. You are expecting a baby
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Phrases "Honey, I'm pregnant" and "Let's get married" should never go together in one sentence. Pregnancy alone should never be a reason for marriage. Remember that the child will only be happy in a family where mother and father love each other.
4. Because "it's time"
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When you hit 30, many girls get the idea that "It's time for me to get married." When you reach that "critical" age and you still don't have a ring on your finger, you risk getting married to the first man who comes your way. You shouldn't, under any circumstance, set yourself such deadlines. Remember: all in good time.
5. He seems like a good "candidate"
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Even if you think that you might have found a perfect candidate for the role of your dream husband, it should not be your main reasoning in this case. A perfect husband is the one you can imagine by your side through the years. The man who has your full confidence and love, not just one who ticks all the boxes from a practical standpoint.
When getting married, don't merely give in to the desires of today, but also think about your future life together. What silly reasons for marriage would you add to our list? We are waiting for your responses in the comments!