What Men Don't Talk About: 8 Taboo Topics That Ladies Should Not Raise
October 26, 2018 14:05 By Fabiosa
There is a statement that men and women see the world through different eyes and supposedly express their opinion about everyday situations differently. Perhaps that is why conflicts often arise in families due to misunderstanding. Or is it because of excessive interest in a topic that is better left alone?
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Let's find out what topics can cause a conflict out of the blue.
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Dear ladies, this is not because men treat you biased. The thing is that the purely male professions have a large number of features that women simply do not understand. And men love you not for the fact that you will be impressed with a story about the failure of the driveshaft. Therefore, if you don’t work with your spouse in the same field, let him discuss work issues with colleagues or friends. Do not bother – then he will definitely turn to you for advice.
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Apologies for the pun, but actually all people feel disappointed when it comes to admitting disappointment. However, women are more emotional, that’s why they are ready to discuss in colors all their failures or minor difficulties. Men will prefer to withhold comments, solving the problem that has arisen silently. If a man does not want to enter into particulars, just cheer him up without going into the details of the situation.
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If a man is gracious to you and is very serious about your relationship, of course, he will mention something about the love adventures that preceded you and... that’s all. No, he will not discuss the weight and bad habits of his ex-girlfriend, only because he does not need to – he has a current girlfriend. You.
Everyone has skeletons in the closet, and perhaps at the right time in the right place, your man will disclose some story, being sure that you will understand it correctly. But just for fun, over a cup of tea, he is not likely to tell you anything from his wild youth.
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Touching women's questions like “Do you love me?” have an important emotional value for women. For men, they often become a burden. Of course he loves you. He is with you, shares your interests, and humors your whims. Therefore, pay attention to his actions; this is how he expresses his love.
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Every family has its problems and misunderstandings. Mom, dad and other relatives are not perfect. But a man would prefer to remain silent about the conflicts in his family and not to discuss his relatives' negative actions that are obvious to you. Understand it: you also wouldn’t be glad to hear unkind remarks about your relatives.
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It is very strange, but still, a man will keep silent about how glad he is to help you and solve your problems. Do not take his help for granted – thank him. And praise him. Even if he is silent about his role, he still notices your attitude. Do not ruin his desire to help you by showing indifference to his actions.
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Believe me, a man worries about your life a lot: he doesn’t want you to stay up late while you walk with friends and he’d like you to drive safely. He tries to prevent unpleasant situations and save you from unnecessary problems. And he speaks about it... just not in the manner that you'd expect. This is how conflicts and misunderstandings arise. Do not take his words as a complaint; he just really wants you to be all right.
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Yes, everyone is lazy. But men are raised as protectors and earners, who simply have no time to be lazy. Although not. He will give you a hint, going fishing or preparing to watch the championship. It is better to allow your spouse to be a little lazy and have rest doing his favorite hobby. And at that time, take your chance to have your own break from household affairs and go shopping with friends.
Have you ever faced such a situation when your man didn’t want to discuss the topics we have listed? And what way out have you found? Share with us in the comments, please!