Why Exes Come Back: Psychologist Breaks It Down
June 22, 2018 10:19
So, you broke up. He left. You thought he was the love of your life. There was an instant spark, and he charmed you off your feet. He said pretty words, gave presents, was all elegant and attentive, and you ruined it. At least, that’s what he said before disappearing for the first time.
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You never realized what you were guilty of. Maybe you raised your voice a bit when he was an hour late, maybe said something — not the point. You nearly went crazy. It was like a cold shower after a warm bed. When he finally resurfaced, you asked him to forgive you and begged him to come back. This is how your will and self-esteem began to weaken. Gradually, you started losing yourself, dissolving in him. This time, apparently, you did something horrible and he left for good. You were overwhelmed with guilt.