Why Does He Ignore Me!? "Ghosting" And Why It Is Dangerous For The Female Psyche
November 22, 2018 14:45 By Fabiosa
Today, more and more women are becoming victims of ghosting. If you noticed your boyfriend suddenly stopped calling and responding to your messages while being online, you must be one of them.
So, one day your partner just stops communicating and responding to your calls and messages. You can still notice that he reads them but keeps silent.
You are a victim of ghosting!
Professional psychotherapists explain that in this way a man remains “close enough” to keep in sight, but at the same time “too far” to maintain close emotional communication.
Psychotherapist Janice Wilhauer explained the reason for this behavior:
It is essential to comprehend: the fact you will be ignored will not state any such thing about yourself along with your characteristics. It is just an indicator your Acquaintance is not ready and is not capable of mature and healthy relationships.
Dating expert Persia Lawson claims that in this way a man simply keeps distance with you:
It’s all about having one foot in and one foot out. It’s a way of them showing you, ‘Hey, I’m still here,’ but not getting into a relationship.
Such behavior can cause women to suffer a lot.
Why ghosting is dangerous for the female psyche
As you now know, ghosting occurs when a partner suddenly disappears and breaks off all contact without any explanation. Of course, a man may be in a similar situation, but the female psyche is influenced by such attitude much more strongly.
Passive-aggressive behavior is strongly discouraged, making you feel uncertain. Your self-esteem begins to inexorably plunge, and your head swells from thoughts.
Ghosting deprives a woman of her orientation: There is no way for her to express her emotions to the abuser. As a result, she begins to feel she is losing control over her own life!
Are you ready to tolerate it?
What should you do if you became a victim of ghosting?
According to Persia Lawson, this man simply doesn’t want to lose the chance to follow your life without giving anything in return.
How could you possibly have a relationship with this person? They're literally giving you breadcrumbs!
Therefore, here is a single recommendation that is wise in this scenario: Block such a partner without any regret, before it’s too late!
Don’t waste your time on a “ghost.” Keep in mind, there are other men who want to date you!
What about your experience? Have you ever been in a similar situation? How did you get out of it? Share your thoughts in the comments.
The material in this article is for informational purposes only and does not replace the advice of a certified specialist.