Blinded By Love: 7 Mistakes Often Made By Enamored Women
March 6, 2019 15:58 By Fabiosa
Passion is an excellent catalyst for building a good and solid relationship, but completely surrendering to it may jeopardize your future relationship! Let’s take a look at 7 most common mistakes made by women in love who do not play into the hand of true love.
1. Idealizing your partner
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Infatuation helps to build relationships in the initial stage. It does a great job masking all the flaws of your partner and relationship, and makes it seem idyllic. But once this surreal love is gone, reality can leave you disappointed. Even when you are head over heels in love, try to be more realistic of your relationship!
2. Pouring your heart out
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Blinded by feelings, you are ready to entrust your most intimate information to a guy all because of his gorgeous eyes and charming smile. How many women have become wiser after getting burned for being so gullible! Infatuation is a game – enjoy it, and after it leaves and love takes the reins, the games will end!
3. Abandoning your girlfriends
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Believing him that your girlfriends are bad for you is a wrong move. When you deprive yourself of the support of your friends, you lose their alternative perspective. Trusted friends can always help you see things how they really are. Don’t abandon them!
4. Spending too much time on the relationship
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When a woman falls in love, her perception of the world changes and her romanticized partner becomes the center of her universe. She wants to be near him all the time: at work; before going to bed; morning, noon, and night. But in this way, you make yourself vulnerable and dependent, which will undoubtedly hurt you in the future if it doesn’t work out!
5. Rushing to introduce him to your relatives
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This move will be perceived as a desire to build a strong and long-lasting relationship. You can scare off a man if you take this step too fast. If he is not looking for a commitment, you could have at least enjoyed the beautiful romance. Also, by pushing it, you don’t give him a chance to come to the understanding that you are the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
6. Pretending to be someone you're not
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If you wanted to get a guy by all means, and for this, you had to pretend to be someone you’re not, then know that soon you will get tired of playing this role. It’s better not to waste your time and to be yourself from the start!
7. Talking about the future too much
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The beginning of a relationship is like an election campaign: you make a lot of promises but after the election, you find yourself in the bitter reality of unfulfilled promises. Be careful about planning your future with him; let him first earn his place in it!
These simple tips will save many women from Cupid’s deceptive charms! Love is what makes life worth living, but even it can’t do without a bit of control!
The material in this article is for informational purposes only and does not replace the advice of a certified specialist.