True Love Or Indulging Whims? Man Receives A Letter From His Girlfriend's Ex-Husband With Instructions On How To Treat Her

Date February 28, 2018

A man named Daniel met an intelligent and beautiful woman Kate. The two liked each other and soon enough began dating. The new girlfriend was rather reclusive; she wouldn't talk much about her family or personal life, preferring to stick to more general topics or listening to Daniel's stories.

One day, the man woke up in the morning and understood that he wanted to see Kate by his side every day of his life. He quickly dressed up and rushed to her work, which he'd never done before. He bought her favorite treats and walked into her office shining.

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However, Kate was rather cold with him, and asked to respect her boundaries and to leave immediately. She also requested that Daniel gave her more space and said she needed to put relations on hold. The man was really devastated by the news. He'd been thinking of moving in and hadn't expected such turn.

In the office, Daniel noticed a man who was looking at him all the time but didn't pay much attention to it. In three days, he received a letter. He hoped it was Kate's, but it was from someone least expected.

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To the one who loves her next,

She’s terrified of spiders. So when you’re out late with friends and she texts you freaking out because there’s one on her window, please go kill it. She won’t sleep otherwise.

She is a total textbook introvert. She won’t reply for hours, and sometimes you won’t see her for a week. You will take this personally. Don’t. She’s simply taking care of herself and she’ll tell you how much she missed you while she was away.

She’ll get very jealous. My god, she gets so jealous. Those brown eyes will turn a deep green. She hates that about herself, and she doesn’t mean to do it. Remember, she loves you. Reassure her that you love her too.

On that topic, she needs constant reassurance. Tell her you love her and mean it. If you can’t do that, leave. She deserves more than that.


The letter continued:

There will be nights when she goes out and drinks a little too much. She’ll call you to bring her home. When you do, she’ll try to keep you up all night by tickling you and repeating “I love you and "I’m sorry I’m annoying.” She’s not annoying. But make sure she has plenty of water and don’t let her pass out until she drinks it, or she will be miserable in the morning.

She is the most independent woman I know. But she’s so insecure, it still breaks my heart. So when she starts an argument with “You don’t love me,” do not get upset. Remind her you do and the reasons why. She’ll come around.

The cat comes first. Always. Don’t ever think otherwise.

Make her tea and remember the way she takes her coffee. She will notice.

When she’s having an anxiety attack, wrap her up in your arms and rub her back. Tell her she’s safe and remind her that she has medication if she needs it.

If you cannot treat her like royalty, let someone else. That girl deserves the world.

Losing her is a pain you will never shake. Your world will come crashing down on you and those pieces won’t ever fit the way they used to. Don’t let her go.

She will love you with all she’s got. Please give her the same.

I am begging you to not hurt her. She is golden. Don’t let that shine die out.

Give her your all and she’ll return the favor. You will never have to ask the universe for anything ever again.

From, A name you’ll hear in passing.


What do you think Daniel should have done next after reading this letter? Would it be a good or bad idea to resume his relations with Kate?

What do you think the woman's ex-husband felt when writing that letter? What could be his intentions?

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